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  Relationships   No one said being in a relationship was easy, no matter if we're talking about a relation with friends, family or a couple. Let me tell you why a relationship is not easy, we all think different than the other. Besides, never mind you are kind of similar with your partner, you are still a whole different person.  The thing is that unfortunately, ego, pride and selfishness take the first place, even when we deny it. There's a huge dissimilarity between loving yourself and being way to pride. You can know what's your place and what you deserve, that's healthy and what most people should do. But when pride exceed you is when you're too busy thinking you're always right to see another point of view, to become a little emphatic with the other. It is for us to know that it is so easy for us to count faults with fingers but we have our too, we can claim how much we hate when others act someway but surely the other has its...

  Fortuity   As humans we are finding kinds, what do I mean by that? Well, we usually go through life searching for all kinds of things, material and non material. The thing is, life is funny that way, sometimes the best things come when you're not looking for them, when you least expect them. Life is besides sarcastic, ironic, you plan something to happen and in the end of the day it happen just a hole different thing.  Have you ever heard of those who look for a couple so desperately? Well, it's funny because they are the ones who normally find harder to find one. On the other hand there are those who don't give a dam about searching for someone but they focus their attention on other stuff and life somehow send someone to step into their lives. Of course, not all coincidences end up well, but what I am pretty sure about is that everyone who you get to know has a reason for doing so.  Moreover, I'll dare to say that from my experience the best people that...

 Strength  This world, full of challenges, issues, people trying to get you down, but yeah, amid all the crap there are few things really worth holding on to.  I can say that in this world, you'll get to know people who's nor happy enough with its own life so they go through life trying to sabotage others, in any kind of way, hurting the ones you love, your passion, ideals, way of thinking.  Remember that the ones who truly love you will for sure give you a piece of advice time to time when they feel like you need it, but they'd never try you to do its will over your life, good relationships start with respect when there's no respect, there's no love.  In order to get through this challenges you need to be physically, mentally and emotionally strong, you need to know your worth and steady where you are standing on the ground. Strong enough to know that no matter how bad things are, time heals all wounds and faith that one day the world r...

Can't get   It's no ones surprise if I tell you that usually what we want the most is what we can't get. It had happen to all of us, that you feel like you got everything you need and suddenly something you want, you can't get, what happens is that you get so obsessed with it that you forget about what really matters.  You fool yourself and costume it as love or even need but is nothing but whim.  Why does this happen? Searching for answers was particularly difficult to me because I was blinded by whim, when it ended, I was finally able to find the reason why I was so obsessed. We usually get obsessed with things we don't posses, lack in our lives of all kinds and when we find something like that or similar we do everything in our hands to get it, but maybe it's not the time for us to get it, maybe it's waiting for us in the future or maybe we don't even need it and that's why we don't get it. We get obsessed bec...

  Panic   We all react differently to pressure, pain, fear, beyond others. While some are use to run away from those feelings, those who avoid them to all costs, there are others who look mostly for an answer to solve. Panic, anger, and sadness make us vulnerable, have you heard once > he or she didn't meant that, it was anger? Well it's true, all those feelings besides making us vulnerable, make us impulsive, we say things we didn't mean and act in some way we would never in our normal state.  The thing that most people don't take into account is that everyone around us are not to blame for not understanding what's going on inside our heads, leave alone our lives. We are selfish enough to believe others should understand us when we barely know if they are going through a hard times as well, maybe even worse that ours. I'm not saying that you should hide your feelings, not at all but get to know yourself so you can control your temper. Panic, a...

 Get rid of We are keen on keeping things in our lives, material and non material stuff, stuff that doesn't work anymore or some other that could be replace for something better. My mom usually says, if you don't get rid of the old stuff, the new will never come in. True.  Cumulating non working stuff prevent us from seeing what really matters, it's kind of difficult to reach a point where you know you no longer what that stuff in your life, and this is the point where I make myself clear, it is not easy to get rid of people in our lives and when I say get rid, I don't mean like avoid them to all cost but to get away. Get away from family or people that we used to call friends because they no longer work for us and further that help us each other it becomes a load to heavy to carry.  The way I see it, life is already hard enough to make it even more surrounding ourselves with people that instead of giving us peace, they give wars. There's no need, you ...

  Fullness   One day you wake up and realise that you wouldn't change a thing, you realise that the journey was indeed hard but that you made it through and you are strong enough to survive what ever comes.  You realise that you weren't missing people or stuff, you were missing yourself. One day you find yourself dancing again, laughing like crazy, happy you know? 'Cause yeah life can hurt so bad once a while but I can assure that not pain nor sadness last forever. It had happen to all of us, feeling like dying even when we are literally don't, loosing peace and hope but I'll dare to say that in order to get fullness you first get to know lack, lack of joy, hope, peace beyond others. Nevertheless one day everything what was snatched from you comes back, at times not in the same way. Let me give you an example, someone you love so much leaves, of course at first it'll hurt but eventually you'll realise that it left for reason and that empty hole in you will b...