Relationships

 Relationships 

No one said being in a relationship was easy, no matter if we're talking about a relation with friends, family or a couple. Let me tell you why a relationship is not easy, we all think different than the other. Besides, never mind you are kind of similar with your partner, you are still a whole different person. 

The thing is that unfortunately, ego, pride and selfishness take the first place, even when we deny it. There's a huge dissimilarity between loving yourself and being way to pride. You can know what's your place and what you deserve, that's healthy and what most people should do. But when pride exceed you is when you're too busy thinking you're always right to see another point of view, to become a little emphatic with the other.

It is for us to know that it is so easy for us to count faults with fingers but we have our too, we can claim how much we hate when others act someway but surely the other has its complains too. I'm saying anything but bear, what I mean is that, it's kind of nonsense to give up on someone just because there's something that bothers us. Mouth has a propose, talking. Not only to demand but also ears for listening. Maybe we are hurting the other in a different way and we just take care of what they are doing to us. A healthy relationship whether it's romantic, brotherly or friendly, is when each person is allowed room, to grow, unjudged and still loved.

Relationships are certainly not easy but it is also true that good ones can bring so much joy to our lives. I'll dare to say that when you love someone it is worth it to try, not to justify but to understand. One day you'll see like everything is black and white but believe me, it is not, sometimes everything seems to be bad, it's simply because we are blinded from seeing all good. 

Remember that when you hope others to love you in the same way you love, you'll end up disappointed because we all love, not to everyone, but we love, so different from all others. When you value someone, you'll see its love language even if it's so apart from yours, just don't become blind to it.