Eclipse

 Careful 

Don't let what they want eclipse what you need, they can be very dreamy but they're not the sun, you are. 

This blog begins with the word careful and a little quote I heard a long time ago. Allow me to explain myself, why careful? It's an advice to all those who just like me, whenever they love someone, they allow theirselves to sum up their whole life to the person you love. 

I mean yeah, love is crucial in our lives but love does not resume to one person and one person only, believe me or not there's far beyond one important person in our lives, even when it looks like it plays the main role, we must be aware that the main role in the story is play by no one but us. 

When you allow someone to eclipse yourself, you suddenly stop enjoying  life, why? because whenever they're not with you, you could feel like everything is useless, nothing but a lie playing with your head. You used to enjoy somethings before that someone came to your life right? And then they make no more sense if they are not with you. Let me tell you, they're not the problem, the problem is your head minimising your own happiness found in more that just them, there's always more, places, people, music, activities, beyond others. 

Whenever you choose someone over yourself, you're choosing their happiness before yours, their wealth being before yours, that's all right but then who's gonna choose yours, are you sure that the person you're putting in front of you will do the same? Just ask yourself. 

I'm not saying their bad or anything, they could be the best person in the world but no matter who they are, no should be before you, because in the end when there's no one else around you, you will only have yourself, and unless you drink of your own cup of worth, you'll become meaningless to yourself, only taking care of others but always forgetting about you. 

It's funny how when you are aware of your worth, people start believing it as well.