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We are keen on keeping things in our lives, material and non material stuff, stuff that doesn't work anymore or some other that could be replace for something better. My mom usually says, if you don't get rid of the old stuff, the new will never come in. True. 

Cumulating non working stuff prevent us from seeing what really matters, it's kind of difficult to reach a point where you know you no longer what that stuff in your life, and this is the point where I make myself clear, it is not easy to get rid of people in our lives and when I say get rid, I don't mean like avoid them to all cost but to get away. Get away from family or people that we used to call friends because they no longer work for us and further that help us each other it becomes a load to heavy to carry. 

The way I see it, life is already hard enough to make it even more surrounding ourselves with people that instead of giving us peace, they give wars. There's no need, you know? I mean there are thousands of people our there waiting to meet you, you don't have to stay in a place that no longer feel safe for you. That's the main importance to get away when it's already necessary. I've always said that people is not disposal and that almost everything can be fixed with words and actions, but I've discover that there is this stuff too that doesn't need to be fixed because sometimes when you fix something over and over again, no matter how much glue you put it won't work again. The same thing happens with people. Getting away becomes the best option for your sake and them.

Get rid of habits, actions, activities that no longer work for you, maybe you are tired of playing football but you are afraid to try something new and that prevent you from seeing that your thing is playing the piano.

I mean if something is for you, it'll eventually come back, but you'll realise that letting go of somethings bring you more peace that keeping them in your life. I'll give you a piece of advice someone gave me once if it's not providing you laughter, money, inspiration, peace, orgasm, you don't need it in your life.




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