Can't get

Can't get 

It's no ones surprise if I tell you that usually what we want the most is what we can't get. It had happen to all of us, that you feel like you got everything you need and suddenly something you want, you can't get, what happens is that you get so obsessed with it that you forget about what really matters. 

You fool yourself and costume it as love or even need but is nothing but whim. 

Why does this happen? Searching for answers was particularly difficult to me because I was blinded by whim, when it ended, I was finally able to find the reason why I was so obsessed. We usually get obsessed with things we don't posses, lack in our lives of all kinds and when we find something like that or similar we do everything in our hands to get it, but maybe it's not the time for us to get it, maybe it's waiting for us in the future or maybe we don't even need it and that's why we don't get it.

We get obsessed because we're not happy enough with what we already have so we go looking for more. Here is when I say how true is when people say that we don't know what we have until we loose it. 

We want love from people that doesn't love us, we want time from people who doesn't give us a second of their day and we want understanding from people who doesn't have a clue about us. These are only few examples. 

I want to talk from my own experience, the day I realised how many people around me, loved me, really loved me for who I am, I stopped begging for love, I stopped accepting things I don't deserve, I know it sounds like a magazine and let me tell you that in order to reach this point I had to hit rock bottom but when I did I found peace, I stopped wanting what I couldn't get and start enjoying and thanking what I got.

We should always look for the better but what we think is better for us may nor actually be so that's when destiny comes. Give it time, remember that if you have to run after something, it means it doesn't want to be caught.