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Secrets

 Secrets 

We all have, all kind, big and small ones, secrets are secret for some reason most of the time avoiding hurting others, shame, guilt beyond others.

The thing about secrets is that there's always a small chance for everything to come to light, and when it does, not always ends up well. I mean secrets are fine, as long as you know what you should and shouldn't keep from others, there are some secrets that the longer you keep them, the more you hurt others. 

Your own secrets the ones that doesn't involve anyone but you, those are value, let me tell you why, because there are some stuff that you don't tell and probably shouldn't, at least not to anyone but just those few who you trust with your life, not everyone gets to know the deepest part of you because not everyone deserves it, there's nothing interest in something that it is already completely known, that is what makes us all special that we don't know everything about others, at times not even about ourselves.

On the other hand, people usually forget how good it can feel when you finally set secrets free, that's the problem about secrets, like misery, they like company, they pile up until they take control of everything, until you don't have room for anything else. You know when there are enough good reasons to tell, in that case no matter how hard you try to hide it, it'll end up consuming you, so be mature enough to face the consequences and don't ever wait for things to get worse.

Avoid others to involve you in lies and issues, that's not your fight, you can give pieces of advice but that's it, it's not worth it, it'll take your peace away and believe me, it's not fare. If you are already involve in it don't hesitate and spill it out, I know it's harder that it sound but in this case it's your best chance to make things right.



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