Soul doesn't shine with anyone

Not everyone is for us

We are not made for everyone as well as not everyone is made for us, you can fall in love with the most attractive person but believe me no matter how attractive they are, the soul doesn't always match.

Imagine, we all are different, in terms of personality, likes, dislikes, defects, qualities, gifts, beyond others. What this means is that we should find someone who match our vibe, not a person who likes or not the same things we do but someone who vibe like us, who complement us, someone to put all our stuff together.

On the other hand, I strongly believe that when there's real care and love in between, everything falls into place, because both sides will be willing to try to match, the thing is that sometimes you don't even have to try, sometimes you find someone who is actually everything you need more than everything you want, most of the times not even looking forward it.

No one would deny, having this wrong idea about finding someone exactly like us, what we don't know is that once a while we do not need the same but the opposite. Imagine you don't like to dance, and you find someone who does, maybe it would push you to try and you may end up liking it or not but at least, it will put you out of the comfort zone, that is what we all need.

You can try it as strong as you can but like a puzzle when the piece doesn't fit, it won't fit. No one has to tell you when you find your person, you'll know because you will be able to feel it. You may find a couple of people who matches with, those are the ones to take care of, to hold on to them and keep them in your life.

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