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Pressure

 Pressure 

Pressured from everything and everyone, because all around you expect something from you, they expect either the best or the worse. 

It is impossible to mention all the humongous expectations but they expect you to be intelligent, kind, patient, a good student, worker, son or daughter, friend, besides others. This leads to pressure, you would like to make everyone you care about happy but let me tell you that is just insane, no matter how much you try you won't fulfil others expectations, let me explain myself, as you continue trying to achieve all requests, they'll continue to grow and in the end, sad but true, it will never be enough. 

Most of the pressure is due to avoiding disappointment to you and others. However, have you ever wondered what you really what to do, who do you really want to be, no taking into account any other opinion than yours? 

Pressure is everywhere you look, the way you dress, look, talk, walk, music you listen, etc. Unfortunately this pressure has make us become ships who follow others, who agree with others even if we are not sure of actually doing it. 

The day you wake up and realised that it's okay, that day the life suddenly changes. It's okay to be and do the things exactly the way you do, your ideas are okay and so your actions, I'm not saying you'll get stuck and avoid growing for the best but give it time and don't look at other clocks. Sometimes all we need it to breathe and say it's okay in order to be it. Pressure yourself but never let others pressure you. 





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