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Everyone and its opinion

 Everyone and its own judgement 

It is true, we are nothing but critics when it comes to others life, it's easy you know? judging and giving our opinion even when it has not been asked.

How can we? I mean how could anyone judge another when no one and I can assure, no one is perfect. Even worse sometimes we judge when we also made those mistakes and thanks to them, we learned. I read one quote once, you can not judge past mistakes with actual consciousness. Mistakes is what makes us. Not how we make mistakes but how we repair what we broke. 

The thing here is that we have no right to give our opinion about others when it's not asked. Besides, we have to learn not care because it's kind of inevitable, people talk, they always do, no matter if you succeed or fail, you can not, and remember this, you won't ever be able to make everyone happy but yourself. Be happy about your choices, decisions, mistakes and actions at the end of the day if you try to please everyone, you'll end up failing.

It's impossible because we all have our own judgement and what seems right for me may look wrong for other, it's your life, no one else's, at last you'll repair or learn from your mistakes and the others will as always forget and look forward another mistake to judge, too busy judging to focus on their own life.

Live and let live, focus on you, act for you and be happy for you, who truly love you will understand and even help you when you get stuck, who doesn't give a clue for you, will let you buried. Better keep those as far away as possible. Don't take any advice you wouldn't give to yourself. Who cares what others think, learn not to care or you'll focus your life in appearances. 




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