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In the right eyes

 In the right eyes 

Once I heard, feel as someone who loves you describe yourself. Let me clear myself, of course you're not gonna be perfect in everyones eyes, that's just impossible. Definitely you shouldn't bother trying.

Of course you won't look the same way in your mom eyes that in the ones of the boy you like, who doesn't even bother to look at you. Luckily the word is bigger than we could imagine and eventually you find people who looks at you with the right eyes, who find beauty in your mistakes besides loving you for who you truly are.

Until you meet the right eyes, you'll probably go through many wrong ones on the way, but that's exactly how you'll realise to contradistinguish both of them. 

Do not bother trying to fulfil others expectations because to right people you wont even have to try. To the wrong ones, no matter how much you try, it will never be enough, because they'll always focus on the bad stuff, that's what we all usually do when it comes to someone and there is no love between.

No one would deny that when you love someone you become blind to all the bad, that's why everyone says love is blind. I quite disagree, it is not like you are not able to see it but that you know their wrongs are overpassed by their rights, you know they do have mistakes but you are willing to help them finding a solution. 

It is not easy at all, no one said that loving was easy, I don't mean only to partners but friends and family included, you could find your self pretty annoyed sometimes by their actions but you do love them, so much that you use understanding before judgement.

At the end of the day those imperfections would become perfect in the right eyes, the ones that do not see with the eyes but with the heart. 



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