How to know when to leave?

How to know when to leave?

Let go of something you though it was made for you, someone you though will be there forever, it is everything but easy, it could take a long time to realise it is just time to leave.

When I say it could take long, I can't give you a precise period of time, but what I do know is that it is never the same, it hits all of us at least once in life, you know? realise that you have been holding so long on to something meant to be free a long ago. But it never takes the same time, depends on you. Besides, multiple factors and reasons why you haven't give up on that already.

I strongly believe in the quote right thing, wrong time. It applies to lots of things, work, people, desires, wishes, hobbies, beyond others. On the other hand I have quite a dilemma. While I believe that some opportunities do not show twice in your life I also believe that when something it is meant to be for you, it will come back, sometimes in the most unexpected ways but it will.

Taking up the quote right thing, wrong time. It is true that sometimes that thing you believed it was for you, and suddenly things start getting messy and complicated. God, destiny, whatever you believe in, send you signals once in a while, telling you when it is just time to let go of something. But we turn a blind eye to them. We hang on to people and things, but when you have already done even what you shouldn't in order for them to stay and doesn't work, it just time to let go. Thanking for the opportunity and knowing that it may be for you and one day it'll come back to you, or maybe it wasn't and never will.

No one can tell you when it is time for you to get away from something, time to leave or let go. It simply comes to you, one day you open your eyes and impromptu you start seeing and realising what you haven't. When you leave because you're angry, because someone to you to do so, believe it doesn't work that way. You must do it on your own, otherwise you'll eventually come back because you are not decided enough.

No one can deny that there's also love in letting go.

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