Replaceable

 Replaceable 

Lately, most people believe that everything is replaceable, it's normal, I mean, given that we live in a world where you just throw something way and buy a new one and it makes no difference. 

Moreover, there's some stuff, not a lot though, but some that cannot be replaced , you cannot buy a new one, because there's no new one, that, no matter how much you search for it, it has no equal. As I said not a lot of stuff, most of material stuff can be replaced for a newer, prettier, better one. 

A person, you cannot replace a person, that would be just impossible because even twins are different. The point I want to reach is that whenever we try to replace someone, we suffer more than if we try to heal it by itself. I would want to put forward an example, I fell in love once and when he left, I tried to search him in every person that came into my life, I tried so hard for forget about him, trying to get that thing only he made me feel in others.

Did you wanna know if it worked? It didn't, because in that time I didn't get that he was one of those things that I would never be able to replace in my life, I had to heal though, in order to be okay, but I had to heal it by myself not with anyone but me. I had to be aware that no one would ever feel the same way as him, they would feel better or worse but never the same. Why? Because they weren't him, they would never be. 

My point is, that irreplaceable things are that, irreplaceable. We cannot change that feeling of hugging our family, laughing with our best friend, or kissing our love with anything. Those are things that are unique. Trying to replace those feelings, people with stuff won't fill the void. No matter how many pair of shoes, cars, houses, money. They just won't, believe me. Whenever you try to fill the void with anything else, remember it will only open the wound ever more, you have to heal it from the inside, never try to replace. Don't forget that even when most of this life has become disposable, there are still things that are not.

We cannot replace but we can make it better, always. Nothing is perfect but everything is perfectible, even though something are already perfect but just we haven't realise it.