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 Family 

Complicated? Yes, most of the times but family at the end of the day. I would consider right when some people call family to people of different blood. By definition family means a group of people who are related to each other. The key word here is related, it's not quite clear. Related how? 

That's the point you can be related to people not only by blood but by love or affection. Family has a deeper meaning than the one given, the way I see it, family are those to count on, those who are there for you no matter what, those who love you not for what you have got, but for who you truly are, those who often forgive your mistakes and accept you without trying to change a thing because they see further than it can be seen.

Family is support, peace, love but family is also discussing, disagreeing, for the simple reason that no matter how much you love and appreciate some one, we all think in different ways. The important thing is, that love being bigger than any discussion, being bigger that anything else.

We all need our family, it is true that some do not deserve to be part of it because as I mention before, sometimes people who doesn't share the same blood type as you care even more. Even so, you cannot act as that people who claim not to need anyone but theirselves. It cannot be true, I mean, everyone needs their family at least the concept of people who care about you.

No matter how independent you are, we all need someone, some to care and look after us, once in a while. Do not waste it, spend time and love those who love you, they're your family.




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