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Too much

 Too much

When do we know when it's already too much time, love, money, pain, beyond others? We never do, at least not until we hit the wall. 

Lets start with love, lots could claim that it is never too much love but they wrong, it becomes too much love when you give and they gave nothing back to you, ever when giving without getting it back is a lovely gesture, it is true that soon or later, everyone get tired of just giving and not receiving anything. Why? because you give and give and become empty, there's nothing else to give because you already gave everything, that only mean something, you gave too much.

Moreover, no one can tell us when it is too much of something, it is something we need to discover by ourselves, otherwise, we will be living according to others measures.

None excess is considered to be good, it's never okay to have too much of something, whatever this is. Too much candy, pall on, too much alcohol, dead. See? 

That's why whenever you spend too much time anywhere, listen to the same song too much times, you eventually get bored or tired of the same. This leads me to say that also when you tried too much, it means you did more than what you had to do, everyone told you that you should stop but you didn't until one day, you realised it was just too much. One day you wake up and say no more, it's been too much. 

As I was saying it is something you eventually get to know, either life by itself tells you or you realised it by yourself. I won't deny it would be great no having to reach that point where we get hurt to know when it is too much but disappointingly most of the times we have to reach it to realise so.




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