Forgiveness

 Forgiveness 

People get hurt and hurt others everyday, sometimes even unconsciously, trying to help or do best. The thing is, being hurt and hurting others is part of our life, it's impossible to avoid it.

It's not about how much damage we have caused but how we repair it, it's about if we choose rather stay, forgive or ask for forgiveness or run away from. No one said it's easy because it's not, it's everything but easy. 

You must know that in order to forgive, you must heal by yourself first, you cannot wait until the others recognise their mistake so on you can forgive them, on my own experience I can say that when you forgive someone, no necessarily you need to hear the words sorry going out from their mouth. 

It would be stupid to keep asking for forgiveness and keep making the same mistakes over and over again. That only means that you're asking for the wrong forgiveness. The true one is when you feel ashamed and bad, you realised what you did and the pain and hurt it caused, then, regretting it and with the knowledge that you will do everything in your power in order to not doing it again, you say sorry.

I could say what's easier, give or ask for forgiveness. Maybe they're both quite hard on it's way, also an intern fight with ourselves. It's true forgiving is also love, loving someone enough to know that their mistakes is part of them growing as human beings. Someone once hurt me pretty bad too, and I'll even dare to say that he maybe never had knowledge of it, the things is that love is usually stronger than that, I forgive him not because he needed it, but because I did, even so I don't deny that when people just keep hurting you and do nothing about it, that's not love. 

No matter how damage you are, that doesn't give you the right of hurting others. Once, it could happen, but no one is stupid enough for doing it a thousand times.