Ego and self-love

 Ego and self-love 

Not as bad nor as good as it may seem, ego can save you, either ruin you too. Why do I say so? Because the way I see it, and it's important to say that this is only a matter of a point of view. 

We know ego is not same that self love, ego by definition is the excessive amount of love for your self, but what can be wrong with loving yourself a little too much. 

It starts getting messy when you stop caring at all for everybody around you. When you're too busy feeling better than others to care for someone else but yourself. 

Moreover, I mentioned that ego can also save you, when? whenever others try to hurt you because you know that you're too dam good to suffer for someone that you want to convince yourself is not good enough for you. 

Believe me it is not as bas as it seems, it is way true that not everyone deserves the best part of you. Ego helps to be selective and yeah, we may need to watch ourselves from becoming selfish and arrogant but also for giving too much to people that doesn't deserve it. 

Being selective is not at all being selfish, it is about knowing who is worth your time, love, energy and company. Loving yourself enough will prevent you for searching that love that only you can give it to you in others, or even worst in the wrong ones.

It sounds cliche but, love yourself enough to know how much you're worth it and do not accept less.