Communication

 Communication 

While it is true that it is of the first things we learn in life, it is also true that as we grow up and learn words, the harder it gets to know what to say or how to ask for what we need.

It is everything but easy knowing what to say all the time, to someone you're mad at, to give bad news, to tell someone you love him, there's just a bunch of stuff that are not as easy to say as they may look.

Sometimes we say with movements, face expressions what we cannot express with words, for example, we cry, crying is a way of expressing the sadness or pain inside of us. Moreover, we need words, because as much as we would like everyone to gets us without saying a word, that's just impossible.

No one can guess what we think, or at least most of people can't, you need something and you're expecting someone to help you? and then you just get mad because for some reason that person didn't, let me tell is not their fault but yours. Need anything? Say it. You get annoyed by something someone do to you? Say it. 

People does lots of things and let me tell you most of the time, they don't ever bother to think of the consequences in others life, they may be hurting you and your head is gonna tell you that they're doing it on purpose but believe me, you don't know. If you tell them that something they're doing hurts you and they keep on doing it, then there may be something wrong with them, but you cannot blame someone that may not know what he's doing.

This is not necessary but I'm gonna tell you something that happened to me due to lack of communication, I spend 5 months mad at the guy I like because he hasn't said thanks for the gift I have gave him on his birthday, the thing is that that day he wasn't at home and I left the gift at the wrong house, so he never knew. See? I was mad for something he didn't even know. My mind went crazy and thought the worst of everything but it was an illusion and a lie that me and me only have created. 

Don't assume, assuming cheats. Talk, it is needed in everything and with everyone. Work, school, relationships, friendships, family, business, etc. Not communicating can lead to misunderstandings, fights, constant conflicts, worrying, sadness. Don't expect others to read you ming, SPEAK OUT.