Shame

 Have you ever felt ashamed? 

It happens to of of us, you won't be the only one. Embarrassment of lots of things. Actions, people, things, an endless list, but the funny thing is that usually we don't feel embarrassment about what happened, we feel ashamed because of the people that watched or listen. Some would even consider it funny if no one would have been there to witness. 

Why is that? Simple, because we care too much about what others think, we care too much about what others consider right and wrong, letting our own judgment in second place. The worst thing, it becomes an issue when it starts stopping us from doing thing we consider funny or like just because we don't know want others to judge.

But we all have met someone who's never ashamed of anything, notice that they look happier, people criticise them but they seem not to care. I'll dare to say that is not like not caring, it's just that they know people judge based on lots of stuff like fad, beliefs, personality beyond others and most times they could change they're thinking in question of seconds. It's stupid right? Trying to fit in based in something so unstable. But as stupid as it may seem, we do it, all the time. We suppress emotions, actions trying to act like normal people would do. 

Why being normal? why no being just you? Why not acting without regretting? 

I mean at the end of the day there's 7.700 million people. Why caring a lot about what a few think? There gonna be those who love you and accept you for who you are, who you truly are. They'll recognise the beauty in your mistakes. 

It's really a wonderful feeling when you know, you just screwed up but you just start laughing because why not? You did it didn't you? Did you fail? Yes, but you're human we all make mistakes, all the time and let me tell you, you could feel like everyone is watching you but actually most people don't care. 

It may sound silly but if something embarrassment happen to you, laugh, there's always gonna be someone who consider it funny. It's nothing but true that laughing is way better than crying. And maybe what you think right now is embarrassing may become funny later, most of jokes and stories do.