Patience

 Patience 

I'm pretty sure you have lost it at least once but most of us are used to lost it several times during the day. It's normal, I mean at the end of the day we're humans and there're always gonna be stuff we like and don't about things. No one has an endless patience that's for sure, even the holiest ones get tired sometimes.

It can be frustrating when you try to repress it, so don't. What you must learn is to know when it's worth it or necessary and when it's not. An uncle told me there're gonna be some battles that you must learn to lose, and other some you don't even have to fight. 

So here is the key, choose, learn to choose which ones. Maybe for some of them there are other ways, look for them before just reacting and yeah maybe for others there's only one choice or one possible solution. 

I must clear one point here, acting and reacting are clearly not the same thing. On one hand reacting is impulsive, letting yourself consumed by the moment. On the other hand acting is when you already thought about it, maybe not for to long but long enough to decide the action you're taking. And you must be wondering, what does this has to do with patience? Well, most of the times patience ends when you just decide to blow up, this due to impulse. As I said before it's in humans nature but we can evolve. 

Maybe not all the time, but why not trying to wait, to understand, to get in other's shoes and therefore act. It would maybe end up better and a lot of fights wouldn't have to be fought.

Use the head, always, and keep it cold, you know what I mean. Sometimes it's smarter not to fight, to agree even when you don't. I'm not saying not to share your thoughts I'm just suggesting to be reasonable and smart, above everything.