Love

Fall in love 

If we search it in the dictionary, you'll find it defined as an intense feeling of deep affection. I'd like to clarify that this article is made based on my way of thinking, knowing that some could consider it right or wrong. While it is true the definition is also true that it's way deeper than that. 

I'd consider love as a complicated feeling. Why? Because it goes against all rules and beliefs. If I would have known that I would be in love sometime, my inner child would have laugh and called me a fool. But it's nothing but true when people say love gets all of us at least once. And yeah it gets out the best and the worst of us. And by saying the best and the worst. I mean that on the one hand it can truly change yourself in the good way, on the other hand it can also destroy you from the very bottom. 

The way I see it, being in love for someone makes you be more stupid than you'd ever imagine. The funny thing is that in others head it may look pretty stupid but not in yours. When you are in love everything you do makes pretty sense. I may be wrong but you choose the other happiness before yours. It's that moment that doesn't happens with anyone but the one. I heard once a quote that said "When you take away the desire to be with another person, you already won". That's love for me, knowing that being free of choosing anyone, you'd choose that person and being sure that you'd choose it over and over again.

When you fall for someone you love every and each part of that person, it may look crazy but even their mistakes, you learn to love that too. Love is not like saying I'm gonna fall in love, that's a lie, it happens at the most unexpected moment, with an unexpected person. When you cannot explain with words why you love someone, don't worry that's exactly what love is. Something you can't explain. 

Love involves a lot of stuff, among that, the desire for the other well being above most things, it may not be the right thing to do but being totally honest and realistic that's just the way it happens. It's that feeling of not having the need to search for anyone else because you've already got everything with that one. 

It's not perfect because we're always gonna want be loved the way we do but it doesn't work that way, if you do not realise that, it may destroy you. Love makes you want to improve to be better in order to be better for the other one. You get to know a whole new different versions of yourself. 

At the end of the day falling in love is okay and it's beautiful, you may end up being the happiest person on earth or with a broken heart but either way it's a feeling that we all should experience as I said at least once or who knows maybe lost of times.