Jealousy

 Being jealous 

I must say that personally I believe is one of the worst feeling you can ever feel. Lets start by saying that the definition involves feeling or showing an unhappy or angry desire to have what someone else has. It's something quite deeper than that.

Why would you like what someone else posses? Easy, because you're not happy enough with what you do have. It's sad since we learn to appreciate what we have until we lose it. 

We might believe that that neighbour with that fancy car can be happier than us just because his car is way better that ours, but we're wrong, we usually would claim. "He commit some fraud or anything". Why not instead? "Maybe he worked harder than me, I could start trying a little harder". See? It's all about attitude, about knowing that our car it's okay but it could be better if we try a little harder.

A few months ago I read a book in which they say that in order for being successful we must learn to bless others and being happy for others success. The other way round than being jealous. 

You certainly do not need to look like another person because each and everyone has that something that no one else has. And when we start loving ourselves just the way we are, it is when all that insecurity translated in jealous, suddenly end. When you know that it's not like you're better or worst but you're just you, in a way that nobody can be. And let me assure you that in the good eyes, that would be just perfect.

Being jealous mostly happens to ruin every contact with everything, life in general and people. We start wondering about others when we must be sure that we are just good enough.

A teacher once told me, you must learn to be happy with what you already have because imagine saying I'll be happy when I got this or that, it's an endless circle because there are always gonna be things you want, and even though you can eventually got them, it'll never be enough. 

Bless and you'll be blessed. Besides, there's no one like you, I'd say that's already pretty special.