Give

 Give 

Time, love, attention, friendship and why not? material stuff. Give. Not because you're supposed to or you have to but because you want, because of a desire from your heart to give.

I recently realised that when you want to give something and at the end you just didn't, for any reason but most common one is thinking too much. The one for it to suffer is yourself, you're dismissing the opportunity of doing something your heart desires. 

What does it matter? One of the biggest mistakes when it comes to give anything is wondering, what would the other think, if it could come back, what others would think. 

Be intense, without worrying of frightening the other. They may thank, they may not. Appreciated or don't. Give it back or don't. But that doesn't really matter. I can assure you, if you give, you'll be reminded. From the way I see it, when you give all of you, you don't care how it ends, you just know there was nothing else for you to do, because you already gave everything from you. 

On the other hand when leave and you still have something inside to give, it's a phase that never ends because in that moment you start wondering what if. What if you could have done more? No one would deny is one of the worst feeling ever. You don't have to feel it, no one has. 

The solution? Give, until you're empty. Until there's nothing else to give. Don't care about others critics like. Why you keep doing this for someone that don't care? Ignore them, they don't get the reason, the only reason must be feel like doing it and that's it. If they get it, fine, if they don't, the same. At the end of the day is you who is giving, not them. 

There are two options, you give and stay in peace or you don't and may regret it later. It is for you to choose.