Disappointment

 Disappointment 

By definition it's sadness or displeasure caused by the nonfulfillment of one's hopes or expectations. But we could all claim that it's all about something stronger. 

I have to clarify that disappointment is not caused by anyone but us, because we expect, not too much, not too little but just what we consider right or perfect for us. And that's not the way it is, neither the way it should be. It happens with everything in our lives.

For example. Love, we would like others to love us the way we want to, but that's just impossible because what may look perfect in my head may not look the same way in his or her. It's all about knowing that nothing is perfect but everything is perfectible. We can't expect the one we love to act just the way we'd like to. 

What we must learn is that disappointment will be just disable when we don't expect but came to understanding. Understanding that we'd never know exactly the reason of why people do what they do. 

Because that's the main point of disappointment, we don't understand, we judge and compare, based on our highs and lows. We don't quite get that people act based on their thoughts, fears, beliefs, what they're living in that instant. I could say that with time, love for me has become to fully love each and every part of someone, even the mistakes, because they may not look like mistakes on its eyes. Even what I once wanted to change, I started loving it. Why? Because that's the way it is, because you can change yourself but not others. 

To sup up, I'll end up by saying that, no matter how much you try for nothing and no one to disappoint you, if you continue expecting instead of understanding. It's a constant stormy circle that happens to all of us and never ends, until we don't expect others to change but you do change whenever you feel the need to.