Let go

 Letting go 

Let go of something or someone can be anything but easy. But why is that? Maybe the easiest answer would be attachment to a lot of stuff. We wish that things that make us happy would last forever. It's sad but true when people say that nothing last forever. Everything happens for a reason, in the moment that it was supposed to happen but after completing its propose it eventually ends or in human cases, die. 

Sometimes people arrive to our lives for two reasons either they teach us something or we do. But no one would dispute that when they left it hurts, specially when a strong relation took place in the bottom of our hearts, because they leave a blank in our lives or at least that's what most of us think. Maybe we're wrong because that space is already filled since the day they came into our lives, no matter if they stay or go. That space is filled with the moments, the laughs, the teachings and the memories that never leave. 

We are made of matter and for obvious reasons we live and we die, we are constant living and changing beings. In this life we'll find people that stay with us until our last breath and also people that will leave on the way. But each one of them have a propose, a important and essential one. Even when we are not wise enough to see it. We will be passenger parts of lots of people, we choose if we left a good or bad memory in others mind. You know, because It would be pretty nice to leave a good mouth taste everywhere we go. 

This can sound tough but when I did realise it, It made me look life with another eyes. Nothing belongs to us. Read it again. No one nor anything belongs to you. Everything is just borrowed by the universe. What comes to your mind when I say borrow? Right, that eventually you'll have to return it. It's the way it works and the less we grapple the happier we'll be. 

I once hear one quote that said. You can't really hold on to someone, because the tighter you hold on to them, the more the wanna slip away. All you can do is love them and make sure they know you're never gonna slip away. At the end of the day if they're wanna leave, they eventually will no matter how much you try to prevent it. And believe me, if they want to stay, they will, even if you don't want them to. 

The bright side is that you'll have the memories, remember the good stuff always and be thankful for what you had and have in your life. 

Today a important person in you life may have left but you don't know if tomorrow another one will walk into. Always remember to hold the doors open, let things come in and come out. I couldn't be other way because nothing belongs to us.