Friendship meaning

 What does friendship means? 

Countless times I have asked myself what a friend is and its important role in anyones life. It's important to say that I'll talking from my own experience about friendship and what means to me.

Since I was just a kid I remember my life surrounded by people, and why do I say people and not friends? Well, because as I grew up I started realising that I could easily be surrounded by a lot of people but only few of them were my friends, real ones. 

This leads me to ask what a real friend is? 

I would personally say that a friend is surely not a person you see or talk every day but someone in who you think when your in trouble and you truly know is gonna stand by you no matter what. I'm not saying only big trouble, from crying alone to be in jail.

A few years ago I heard a quote in the serie called Pretty Little Liars that said. "That's the good thing about friends, they're not your family, they accept you for who you are" 

It may apply for you or it may not, the thing is that accepting someone exactly the way he or she is, it's one of the main roles of a real friend. They are not with you for how you look or what you posses but because they love you. 

If you ask me what I feel about my friends, I'd say that I would give my life for them. Why? Because I can truly say that I am the woman I've become thanks to them, no doubts about it, I could say that when I was about to give up, they pick me up and filled me with love, I could say that they were there, always by my side, even when I felt I didn't have anyone, they give me reasons to smile and laugh when my only intention was to cry, they've told me more than I could ever imagine. 

They taught me not only not to have fear but to live everyday as if it was the last one, to do everything in my hands to be happy above anything else, not to stay with the desire of anything because tomorrow may be to late. But most importantly that no matter if something went wrong I was always gonna have their support. They didn't judge me based on my mistakes but in my success. They made me believe in myself.  They are my medicine, always but specially when everything seems wrong, they make it right.

Finally, after reading all that paragraph above you'll see what friendship is about, believe me when I tell you that people is gonna get in and out your life but good friends are staying and only the time and the actions tell you which ones are real. Take care of them cause I'll dare to say that they are the angels on the ground in your life.