How to be a better person?

 How to be a better person?

If you have asked yourself how to be a better person, you are in the right place. Firstly I must tell you that this is not an article about how to be a better person that other, It is about how to be a better version of yourself. 

Think about this for a while, lets suppose you live your entire life being and keeping yourself just the same, some people would say that's perfectly fine and yeah, it is. But why not being much more better than who we already are. Do you have any idea of how many possibilities arrive when you change a little bit, for the better of course?

Lets define what better means. Better means that you improve something no matter how big or small it is. Being better in fact means to act in any way better. Better than what? Than you just did a second ago or yesterday to be logical.

This are some pieces of advices in order to improve yourself.

1. Be grateful

More than you were yesterday and with everyone around you, even be thankful for what you have and what you don't.

2. Learn to forgive.

More than being something in favour of others, you'll realise that is something that feed the soul. It's important that you know that forgive does not mean to stand bad treatments, it means no grudge to anyone, not even to yourself. When time passed you'll recognise that no one is perfect, we all make mistakes and it is perfectly fine. We judge but we have barely no idea what's going on on others life and why the act the way they do.

3. Be direct and honest 

How would you feel if a loved one or business partner lied to you? Chances are you would see that as a violation of your trust. If you want to be a better person in either your personal or professional life, you should always tell the truth and state as clearly as possible what you are trying to convey. Learn to articulate your thoughts, feelings, and ideas in an open and honest manner.

4. Be helpful 

Whether giving up your seat to an elderly person on the subway, assisting a co-worker on a project, or carrying in the groceries when your spouse comes back from the store, being helpful is one of the easiest and most effective ways to practice becoming a better person. I find that the more I help others, the better I feel about myself and everyone around me.

5. Listen to others 

As Jeet Banerjee notes on Lifehack, "listening to people and giving everyone a voice is one of the greatest things you can do." He adds that he "got to meet some of the most amazing people, close some of the biggest deals, and develop connections that will last me a lifetime all because I took time to listen to people. Being a good listener can change your life in a positive manner."

6. Be open 

Keep your mind open to suggestions, trying new stuff. Don't be afraid of learning something new everyday. 

Do not forget. Big or small but always for the best.