Too personal

Too personal 

All the time people do and say lots of things before thinking it twice, most of the times they don't stop to think if they could hurt someones feelings besides a bad impact in others lives.

Imagine living everyday waiting for people to tell us what we expect to hear, putting all our happiness on others hands, what an insane thing to do and I'm pretty sure, we could never be completely happy that way, our joy always under others actions.

Being sentimental, that's perfectly fine but I've know people who can get so influenced by others attitude with them, leaving them crying in bed. I mean I don't judge but it's anything but okay to allow others to have so much power on us that way. It's like you ruin your whole day just because someone told you a bad comment or act in some way and disappointed you. Don't make such a big deal out of nothing, if they don't care, why should you?

The great secret for disappointment and great days from this blog is, stop expecting so much, if the care, good, if they don't, good. Don't take anything so personal. Most of the times when you get hurt by little stuff, it's important for you to say it but also to work on it, why it has such a great impact on you. Let me tell you that those little things that hurt you, people who did them may not even notice. It looks to me not quite fare to be worried all the time of what people say and the way they treat you, when they don't even care, not everyone has to like you and you don't have to like everyone. 

You don't need to focus so much on what others tell, do and say to you when you're smart enough to know you're worthy. Remember that if they throw you, it's because you weren't standing firmly enough.