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To miss

 Have you ever missed something?

I bet you have, we all do, constantly and in all stages of our life. It is a constant reminder that most things don't last forever. 

Missing hurts, most of the time but it is also good because if everything just stayed always the same, life would be pointless. We are constantly missing, missing someone, someone to be the one they used to be, things, things we used to get. But we will always miss something given that life is in constant change, and it changes so fast.

We wake up everyday being someone different than we were the day before and that's how it's supposed to be. As I said you cannot expect life to remain just the same, times changes, people change as well. We all know that somethings change for the best and some others for worse. 

Missing takes us to do stupid things to recover what we loose. Moreover sometimes we need to learn to lose in order to win. What do I mean by that? You're gonna lose friends, and you'll probably miss them but you'll get some new as well. We all lose people we love, sometimes we cannot get them back, no matter how hard we try, just because it's impossible. Neither things nor people last forever but what it does, are the memories. 

Miss, that's okay, that is just a reminder that you're are a human being but don't get stuck in, learn lo let go, to continue even missing, knowing that life will bring you bigger and better things maybe not today but maybe tomorrow.  I miss all the time but I know that everything that came into my life once and now it's gone will follow me wherever I go, those are the things that makes me who I am.

Miss and be always thankful for what you still have got, for what you had got and what you're gonna get. 



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