Learning to be alone

Being alone

It's true that this is not a hard thing to do for everyone, but it surely is for lots. Being alone is something we all must learn because the lack of awareness could lead to fall for the wrong arms. Love enough being alone, so that only a incredible person can take you out of it.

Whenever we learn to be alone, we will realise that not everyone is worthy our time. But also I'll like to mention that not knowing to be on your own could be disastrous, leading to multiple issues just like depression.

It's okay not having people around all the time, it's okay to be just you for some time. The silence is also what I would consider as one of the hardest things when it comes to loneliness. But once someone told me that there's wisdom in silence.

There are lots of things that are not made for being collaborative, at least I would say so, like, meditating, we all need that once a time. This leads me to say that we all for nature need sometime alone, doing something just you, for you and you only. It's vital in our live.

You'll also find out that you'll enjoy way more the company when you are already happy being on your own. Because you won't surround yourself of wrong people.

Find out a activity or a time for being on your own, believe me it will teach you way more that you would imagine.

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