Being different

What's wrong with being different?

Being different has become something for only the bravest ones, living in a society where you're supposed to fit in. 

But, Is there really something wrong with not seeing eye to eye with everyone? Is it that bad to have different ideas from the others? How possibly could we all think, act, react, talk alike when everyone is so different?

The answer is actually pretty much simple but society make us believe the opposite. Being different more than something normal is what makes us all so special. It is what makes human beings apart. You will never find someone exactly the same as other not appearance nor mind. Not even the twins are the same, they could look almost the same but that almost makes a huge difference. They will never like the same stuff and think just alike all time. Why? Because everyone is different.

Imagine if everyone would be just the same, everything will be so boring, meaningless even. 

Not one but all of us were born with different abilities, ways of thinking, talking, walking, eating. It is something that goes beyond ourselves because it is already inside of us. Trying to be like others to fit in the society where we develop is only a way of wasting our real potential. Our society works because of our differences where we find different abilities  not everyone could be a doctor, writer, painter, dancer.  

I can assure that most times, we trying to be alike is because nothing but afraid. Of what? Of people judging us, not accepting us the way we truly are. With the time the smart ones learn how to accept and take good pieces of advices and erase the ones that don't work for them, keeping theirselves original. I most tell you that being you and different doesn't mean you can't be a better version of yourself everyday.

One of the biggest mistakes we all make some occasions is trying to persuade people to think the way we do. Why would we do that?  Each mind is a whole different world and so its beliefs. And that's perfectly fine. Why thinking just the same when maybe the other version told is also alright. Here it is the advice. Pull out the best in everything, make it yours but most importantly respect others beliefs. No one is anyone to tell if the are right or wrong, if you have proves, try to show them but do not force it. It's their choice to make if they change their mind or keep it the same way.

Get to know yourself in order to accept it and love it. We are all special, remember that no one is more that other but each one keen on different forms. When you love yourself, you suddenly stop trying to be like others and start defending your beliefs. That's the way it is supposed to be.

Last but not least, there is no logical reason in trying to think all the same given that there are just infinite possibilities in everything as well as choices. Choose by your own judgement. Always.